Before you delete the toon, I would say at least try disc and/or shadow. No reason to waste a perfectly good toon.
I found when I tried holy, that I also had problems keeping up. What are you using for your level 90 talent? For dungeons, I've found that halo works if you can get to a good place to use it. I always use it whenever it comes up, that may help.
Also, keep in mind that many random dungeons aren't doing mechanics. That can make it harder for you to heal.